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The Philosophy of Smokey and the Bandit

The Philosophy of Smokey and the Bandit

Closing the gap between the man I am, and the man I'm capable of being, requires URGENCY.Maybe not for some, and certainly not for the young. But for me, the flames of this Mid-Life Analysis burn brightest when I douse them with a daily dose of...

40 Percent Less Sodium?

40 Percent Less Sodium?

“How we frame our thoughts, is nearly as important as the thoughts themselves.”  33% less sugar?  33% less than what? 50% off?  50% off of what price? 40% less sodium?  40% less than what?  Isn't that a pretty important detail?   If you really stop and think...

How to Tame a Wolverine

How to Tame a Wolverine

Professor Charles Xavier. Teacher. Leader. Mentor. Mutant. Professor X is the world’s most powerful telepath. He can manipulate people’s minds with his own will. He can tap into the psyche of human beings across the globe…all from the comfort of his...

Are your Goals like the Fidget Spinner

Are your Goals like the Fidget Spinner

In July 2017, we went on vacation to Myrtle Beach with some friends...and great times were had. With one exception. One of my most vivid memories, is of a small, insidious creature that seemed to be lurking everywhere. At the beach, on the street corner, in our cars...

The Greater of Two Goods

How many times have you had to choose, seemingly, between "the lesser of two evils"?  Perhaps it's a consequence of my age, or the negative media cycle that we all live in...but I sure seem to hear this phrase, a lot. The concept implies making a decision (usually a...

Someone, Somwhere, is DREAMING of your Struggle

“And those who were seen dancing, were thought to be crazy, by those who could not hear the music.” Friedrich Nietzsche Master the ability to widen your view, and your life improves...instantly. Show someone a new perspective, and you have the power to change their...

Thanksgiving Day. aka Gratitude Day

Tomorrow is the day!...my very favorite Holiday...Thanksgiving. Why? Well...certainly there's the food. Turkey (especially the dark meat), sweet potato casserole, cornbread, stuffing, gravy, deviled eggs, mmmm.... (If only coconut cream pie were "traditional".) And a...

A River Runs Through It…

Imagine you're walking down the center of a small river, heading downstream. The current at your back is quite strong, and the water is nearly chest high, but the bottom is of sufficient traction so that you feel stable in your footing. The walk is a bit cumbersome,...

A Case for Unreasonability

I believe...in being reasonable. I believe...that most of what you see and hear from media and social outlets is, unreasonable. Polarizing, extremist, myopic, self centered, closed-minded, "opinion journalism", ...call it what you will, but we are sadly missing the...

Euphemistically Yours

Euphemism - A mild or indirect word or expression substituted for one considered to be too harsh or blunt when referring to something unpleasant or embarrassing.You've probably heard, and used, many euphemisms in your day-to-day life...even if you didn't recognize it...

My Habits are Their Habits

More and more and more and more...this thought crosses my mind: "Your habits are their habits." In "Freakonomics", authors Steven Levitt and Stephen Dubner reviewed data from a DOE study on over 20,000 children from kindergarten to 5th grade, specifically regarding...

Ugly Babies

"A face only a mother could love." - Unknown Ever notice how ugly other peoples babies can be? But not my sons. Nope. Handsome steeds from the very moment they squeezed their way down Mommy main street. I mean, these two dudes couldn't have been more handsome. From...

The Battle of Evermore

"When we feel safe inside the organization, we will naturally combine our talents and our strengths, and work tirelessly to face the dangers outside...and seize the opportunity." - Simon Sinek This is a quote about leadership...a topic I was thinking about this...

You’re Wrong. Why? You’re Mean. Wha?

“For good ideas and true innovation, you need human interaction, conflict, argument, debate.” – Margaret Heffernan There is a word I use, and consider, quite a bit: Discourse. It is simply a synonym for discussion or debate, but I find the word to have more nuance...